So when I had my DS1 my mom was lurking over me and it was annoying. I held Riley for a short about of time before my mom asked for him and I said that DS1 needed to hold him first and she said, "well hurry up and hold him so i can." and so right away tyler (ds1 dad) held him and for a short amount of time and then he went to my mom and around the room.
Because of this I decided I didn't think I wanted anyone at the hospital for delivery. DH Pat had already felt this way to begin with before I even told him that story. My mom was here visiting today and it somehow came up and I said that we aren't letting anyone in the delivery room and we kinda got into an argument with her and she called DH my ex (it's offensive because everyone hates him) and she ended up throwing a small tantrum and leaving.
It makes me not want to let her see us at the hospital AT ALL. We told her we are going to get people take turns once I'm in the recovery room. I think that's fair!
What are your delivery room/ recovery room plans for visitors?