Well we decided on IUI since it was less expensive, and less invasive. Originally we didn't think anything was "wrong" with me. I thought it might only take like 3 months - 8 cycles later (6 IUIs, 1 cancelled cycle, 1 rest cycle) and still nothing. I could technically do like another 12 IUIs and they'd be covered thru my insurance...but I just don't think emotionally I can do it any longer. We started our TTC journey almost 3 years ago!!! Today I feel so defeated. I'm really starting to lose hope. Growing up, I couldn't wait to have a baby - my biggest fear was that I'd never have kids. and I'm starting to feel like that's coming true.
sorry to be such a debbie downer.
- Toni Marie
Your not adowner, it is a oerfectly normal response to have in your situation. Also there may also be nothing wrong on your side but like you said it's a ine time shot, most people doing iui have the back up of extra bding, so even if the iui doesn't do the trick there is extra. I really hope your baby is not far away.
Here too! I have a 2 1/2 year old. I had a miscarriage last year and a chemical pregnancy at the beginning of the year. Here's hoping to this one sticking.
Hugs to Toni!
How many dpo are you Wendy?
Julie - I agree with Wendy that if multiples are meant to be you'll figure it out! Plus, even with clomid it's only an increased chance, not guaranteed!
I'm also waiting out the end of this cycle, but have some spotting today, so excited to start next cycle and maybe finally get lucky!
Ethan - June 21, 2009
Olivia - December 5, 2010
5w3d - October/November 2012
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