Okay POAS addicts! Fess up!
How often do you DTD around the time you O? Do you make a special point to do it, or do you just let it happen?
I had to stop obsessing over it, so I was aware of about when I O'ed, and tried to make a special point to get DH in the mood at least once around that time, but for the most part I just let it happen. Trying to schedule it just totally killed the mood!
Because that my tubes were tied, TTC was totally not a consideration when DTD. I have NO IDEA when I would have gotten pg. I was a little embarrassed to go to DH with a calendar and ask him what days he thought we might of DTD so I could figure out how far along I was. He had no idea either. Must be it was not super memorable...
DD was conceived on our honeymoon (on purpose), but needless to say, that was a twice a day kind of time, so it probably doesn't count.
To conceive my DS I made DH do it once a day every other day for like 10 days. Yeah, it was less than romantic- it was fun, though! And, it worked. We have truly been blessed with easy conceiving.
Mara & Joel, 2009
We are generally pretty active anyway... When i could be at a fertile time, i try to seduce him every other day lol but it really isn't hard. We have fun and try not to make it a duty.
Ehhh.. We've DTD 10+ times in the past two weeks. I no longer feel like I have any idea when I'll O, so I'm pretty much just covering all the bases. I made DH BD last night before I dropped him off at his brother's place, and we'll BD again as soon as we get in the door tomorrow when I pick him up from the airport. I think this month is an anomaly but we definitely time DTD around O, usually every other day.