I'm not tandem BFing, but I think I might like to get there. DS3 is 23 months and still BFing a little and I am 10.5 weeks pregnant. My older two weaned when I got pregnant again, but DS3 seems to be sticking it out. I've always BFed my kids past a year, but now I'm getting to uncharted territory.
What should I expect from a nursing 2 year old, especially while pregnant? He usually nurses once a day, but occasionally asks for a second session.
I've also heard toddlers are great at helping with engorgement when BFing a newborn. I get some serious oversupply and have a tendency to get mastitis (I've had it 3 or 4 times that needed antibiotics) and would love his help after the baby comes.
Also, I come from a very BFing supportive family and DHs family is supportive, too, but I'm starting to get hints that maybe it's time to wean. I've even had a few from DH, but he seems pretty willing to go along with what I think is best. I'd be fine with DS3 weaning when he's ready, but he still gets so excited about his milk. Any advice on handling unwanted comments?