I think my 14 month old dd is weaning herself. She is getting her molars so i dont know if this has something to do with it but she is pushing me away. We had been nursing 4 times a day and once at night for the longest time. Now she only nurses a few minutes in the am and sometimes not at all if she hears her brothers. Now today she pushed me away before her nap and last night she didnt want to nurse before bed. I know its better this way on her terms but i thought she would nurse longer. So she is nursing once or twice a day for for only a few minutes. I still feel my let down so i know i still have milk. Anyone else go through this? I always thought i was going to have to get her to just once a day at bedtime and then stop that around 2. I guess she has other plans.