When DD hit 12 months (my original BF goal) and neither of us were anywhere near ready to wean, I set 18 months as my next goal. I decided to keep doing what I was doing and when DD hit 18 months I would switch to 'don't offer, don't refuse.' Now that 18 months is right around the corner, I'm stuck trying to decide if I'm actually going to quit offering. My *new* goal is at least 2 years and I have no doubt we'll make it, baring unforeseen circumstances. Even with the night weaning we've been attempting, DD is still nursing loads during our daytime time together. I'd say its 75% her asking and 25% me offering (usually when she's whining or otherwise being troublesome). If I quit offering, how might that impact our nursing relationship? For those of you who've quit offering or have weaned previous nurslings by 'not offering, not refusing', how big of hit did your nursing take?