The witch finally showed just shy of 17 months pp It was about 2 months after cutting out the daytime feedings. It has not affected how Morgan nurses though. She still loves her middle of the night comfort.
I was really anxious to get mine back after a while too with all the preggo like BFing hormones raging in me.
In May I had some spotting and it seemed like things were starting, when they didn't I went to my OB freaked it was implantation bleeding and looking like a fool.
AF finally came back in late July, a couple of weeks before DD's first birthday. DD was still getting up quite a bit in the night to nurse and we haven't weaned at all. I had two 28 day cycles and two 35 day cycles. I have noticed they are a bit different (lots more PMS symptoms than pre-preg). I hope you get some relief soon. It's such a PITA to feel like you're going to get it back and then have nothing happen.