I watched the video for the first time just now. I think the lady is pretty nice and a seems like a good mom - from whatever one can tell from a 20 seconds =) The grassy part where she told her son to go 'make pee' isn't really that far and if he just lowered his pants and proceeded I can see how that can happen really that fast. She does not at all seem like the kind of mom that would just have her son or just let her son pee wherever.
The cop who gave out the ticket is a jerk. Obviously peeing in public is not cool. But a two year old?? Clearly it was extenuating circumstances. It wasn't as if she told her older kids to pee on a pole.
I'm currently potty training my 2yo and I would be so mad if a business wouldn't let a toddler use there bathroom! Yes, we try to pee before we leave and all that, but accidents happen.
I have been reminded though from this incident to be very sure to try my best to make him go every available inside opportunity LOL.
Yeah that's nuts.