10 - 25 feet wide shoulders is what it says in the article but its not what i see in those pictures...so what is actually true on the stretch he had to walk could change my mind. Article also says that people walk there a lot so i find it highly unlikely its a stretch like whats in those pictures. Routes often vary a lot, especially in rural areas from one town or section to the next.
I'm so glad my state doesn't have a law telling me what age I'm allowed to leave my kids home alone....because I think we live in a world of over-protectiveness and children lack a lot of independence and some whackjob would make it a lot higher age limit than i ever would.
Assuming the description in the article of the stretch he had to walk home was correct...statistically the child was probably safer walking then he was in the car with his father.
Every choice has risk involved. I just read this article as it was shared by a few of my FB friends...same thing. Drives me nuts that stuff like what happened to this woman actually happens: The day I left my son in the car - Salon.com
Last edited by KimPossible; 06-04-2014 at 10:28 PM.
Kim I read that article today and it really struck a chord with me. How awful for that mom.
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I totally second guess stuff like this because of the article that I linked to. I think people deem stuff negligent or unsafe all the time when it's really not... So yes, I would like to see the road before I believe those in our judicial system. I think you are making tons of assumptions about the scenario. Just because you think most kids would be unprepared does not mean this child was not prepared. You don't know either way. And if you are not crossing roads, walking home is not rocket science... There are some basic safety precautions that need to be driven home, but let's not act like the father dropped him off at the top of Mt. Everest. As for being scared and upset being why the cops were called? Totally disagree that you can assume that. In the article I linked to, the mother was reported and her child in the car was NOT upset at all. It just takes one "horrified" person who doesn't like the fact that not everyone hovers over their child 24/7..no terrified child actually needed.
Last edited by KimPossible; 06-05-2014 at 07:40 AM.
There is also nothing at all in the article that would lead me to believe this was the child's first walk ever. My 9 year old who is not much older than the child in the OP has been going for walks with us for years. Even though she has never walked by herself, she would know how. I would be very surprised to meet an 8 year old that did not know how to walk down the side of the road without walking out into traffic.
Kim I did post some pics of the highway on page 1.
When I googled this more articles popped up and referenced that the boy was crying on the side of the road when he was picked up.
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I responded in regards to the pictures you posted....they do not match the description in the original article. A route like that can vary greatly from one area to the next...i would like to see the part of the route he actually walked on. I also said that if the description given in the first article (large shoulders, people walking and biking) is not accurate, then the condition of the road could change my mind.
And really...a mile is not long at all. At a leisurely pace, that is less than twenty minutes.
ETA: Really my main point is, the condition of the road is the only thing that would change my mind. None of this stuff about the child being upset or needing to walk a mile alone. AND, i don't think it should warrant arrest or a criminal record either way. But thats just me! I don't like the government nosing into every parenting choice I or any other parent may make.
Last edited by KimPossible; 06-05-2014 at 10:00 AM.
I think a boy watching his father be arrested is more traumatic that walking down a road on his own.
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