Originally Posted by
ftmom
And from my understanding of this debate, it would be because you have a genuine concern about what is happening in the picture. My point was, that if I was to report a picture like this of my ex and our child and I didnt already have concerns about him having guns around them, it wouldnt be due to being concerned about the picture, but because of other issues we may be having.
I like to belive I am not that person, but I know a lot of people who have gone through nasty custody stuff, from the cops being called because the other person wouldnt exchange the kids at 4am, to lies being told in court, facebook pages being scanned for anything incriminating, CPS being called, to a friend of mine who has actually lost his daughter because after the court appointed him joint custody, his ex took the baby and left the country. That was 6 years ago, and he is still struggling to track her down. In some cases it is jealousy the other person has moved on, mental health issues, and in the case where the baby was kidnapped, his refusal to marry the mother.
My point is that there are a lot of different issues in relationships, especially ones that have ended, but the couple is still forced together by a child. Because of that I cant take the mothers concern about this picture as an indication that there have been previous issues with the childs safety.