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    I just found out that a good friend of DH, someone that we both knew well growing up and is very close to DH's family, just died in Afghanistan. He was killed by a suicide bomber. DH's family is all very devastated.

    Sorry, I know it is not really a debate, I just needed to express it somewhere.

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    I'm sorry they must be going through a lot. My heart goes out to them, my son just left yesterday to go back for a second time. He will be gone 6 months. It is very hard not to worry with everything that is going on in that area of the world right now.

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    I'm sorry for your families' loss.

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    I'm sorry for your loss. How tragic.

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    I'm so sorry.
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    Thank you.

    Does anyone know how long before the funeral normally is. I don't want to be insensitive by asking, but it would help me be able to plan better if I knew.

    ~Bonita~

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaEimers View Post
    Thank you.

    Does anyone know how long before the funeral normally is. I don't want to be insensitive by asking, but it would help me be able to plan better if I knew.
    I can't really say for sure because I am sure it varies, but it will probably be at least a week or so. A young man from our church was killed last year and it took about a week for his body to be shipped home. Our church coordinated for people to line up along the highway with flags when his casket was picked up from the airport.
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    Bonita, I am so very sorry to hear of this loss. I will be offering my thoughts and prayers for the family (and friends.)

    To answer your question, as Gloria shared it varies. Unfortunately, in some cases there is a delay in shipment of the remains back to the States. I know that they try to do this as quickly as possible now. Then, once in the states, many times there can be another 3 - 7 days (or more) before the release to the family. It can make it very difficult to plan -- and honestly prolongs the anguish for the family/friends as the process of closure can't begin. The longest that I believe we have dealt with from the time of being informed until date of burial was about 5 weeks; shortest about 8 or 10 days.

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    Gloria, I will be keeping your son in my thoughts and prayers. That is an incredibly sweet picture with his little one.

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    ~Bonita~

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    I'm so sorry, Bonita, about the loss of your friend.

    Gloria, I'll be keeping your son in my prayers.
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