I would love to get some unbiased insight from some people that have a different world view than I do.
If you (a woman) lived with someone for 10 years (a man) and had two precious little girls together (Never married), then you broke up and got together with another woman, would you still come to the man's family get togethers? Would you expect the man's family to buy you and your girlfriend Christmas presents?
Thanks for all words of wisdom. The guy in this story is my brother, and I am afraid world war three is about to break out. My personal opinion and that of my parents is that she is still the mother of my nieces. My Sister and BIL though, do not think she should be there and do not want to come if she is there. It would be a huge help to have some other opinions, as I do not know any other homosexuals. I also do not want to loose my Brother or my nieces.
ETA - She and my brother still live in the same house (Different bedrooms) for the sake of their kids. I do not foresee that being a permanent situation.