So this isn't so much a debate but I would like to know your opinion on the situation.
To cut a long story short, when I was 21 me and a friend of mine had a falling out. We were part of a group of 5 girls and we were all extremely close. She fell out with me for missing another of my friend's 21st birthday parties.... but it was due to unforseen circumstances and tbh, I needed her.
For a good few years we never talked or even seen each other and I'd say it's only been the last 3 years that we started talking via facebook. She was living in London but moved back here in Sept or Oct as she was due her baby. We had talked about meeting up before the baby arrived and she was up for it, but then baby came and I never had her telephone number so it never happened.
I decided yesterday, that I would send her a bouquet of flowers and had it sent to her parents house where she is currently living. I wrote on the note, my number and asked her to call..... but I have heard nothing
I am so upset. I know she would have received them, but I don't want to contact her and be like "Hey! Did you get my flowers?" 1 incase she never and 2, sounding like I expect a thank you.
So, what would you do? How would you feel?