What if they are just using a webcam, but not recording?
Haha Lillie - why do you want to videotape your nanny? Do you have any reason to not trust her? I have to say that there is no way I would work for someone if I knew or found out they were taping me. Not because I would be doing anything wrong, but simply because I could never relax in their house and I wouldn't like the implication that they had so little faith in me.
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I don't think she holds the baby enough or really understands how to play with him at this age. She's only 20 and he's the youngest she's nannied for but she had experience with her niece. I'm betting it's more fun to handle a 3 month old that you love dearly who's mom lives with you than one you are paid to watch. I trust her to handle his needs, but I'd like to see if he's getting enough play/cuddle time.
eta-I meant to post that I wasn't talking about the nannycam thing (entirely) when I brought up the webcam. I meant in general. If he was just watching her diddle the other man for his own confirmtaion that she was cheating so he could let the relationship go over the internet instead of recording, would that be acceptable?