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    Quote Originally Posted by wlillie View Post
    "She" should have put some damn shorts on if "she" didn't want to "expose himself" because "she" was actually not only in front of 17 year olds, but young children and it doesn't matter *AT ALL* how old the "young girls" were because they have the right to not see a penis in the locker rooms. His rights stop where theirs get intruded on. "She"' is obviously just being an *** because "she" said "the students need to be informed."

    Until "She" becomes a "she" then "she" needs to keep her damn clothes on in front of people. Otherwise we leave ourselves open to having perverts randomly saying they are "she's" so they can get into locker rooms with the opposite sex! Get the surgery or go to the bathroom that matches what is in your drawers.

    There were no young children in the locker rooms. Read your own article please. Just because you have a different (rather narrow) view of what the you might refer to as a man or woman, doesn't mean this woman needs her rights trampled.
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    oops. Have no idea why this posted multiple times...
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    Quote Originally Posted by smsturner View Post
    There were no young children in the locker rooms. Read your own article please. Just because you have a different (rather narrow) view of what the you might refer to as a man or woman, doesn't mean this woman needs her rights trampled.
    What article?

    I don't have a narrow view and her rights getting trampled prevents eveyrone else in the locker rooms rights from being trampled. I wouldn't give a flying rats patootie if "she" had got the surgery and wanted to use the female locker room. Until she does, she needs to use the one where her parts match the other naked peoples. Why on Earth do you think the kids using the pool should be the ones to have their rights trampled over a 45 year old who feels the need to flash "her" penis around? Seriously? If you don't think she's a pervert, then how do you explain not using at least a damn towel in the sauna?

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    The OP repedidtally says little girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smsturner View Post
    I wish i could say there was a good solution. But really, where should we stick her? In the middle of a bunch of men, even though she's been a woman for 3 years?
    Yes. He hasn't been a woman for the last 3 years, he has been calling himself a woman for the last 3 years. He was a man for 42 years before that. He should be in the men's locker room. If he had been discreet instead of walking around naked and sitting nude in a sauna no one would have known. The only thing that makes him transgender is that he dresses like a woman, so when the clothes are off he is just a man in a women's locker room.

    Some solution they came up with. They make all the rest of the girls use a smaller locker room so he can have the larger one to himself.
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    There were girls as young as six that use the facility. !7 is still underage. It is not a mixed gender dressing room or sauna. So no if she wanted to use the female rooms she should have appeared as much female as possible, covering up. Most people I know while changing in rooms or saunas still do so as modestly as possible.
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    Quote Originally Posted by smsturner View Post
    There were no young children in the locker rooms. Read your own article please. Just because you have a different (rather narrow) view of what the you might refer to as a man or woman, doesn't mean this woman needs her rights trampled.
    It says that children 6 years old and up use that locker room. The fact that they just didn't happen to be there at the time doesn't mean they couldn't have been.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wlillie View Post
    What article?

    I don't have a narrow view and her rights getting trampled prevents eveyrone else in the locker rooms rights from being trampled. I wouldn't give a flying rats patootie if "she" had got the surgery and wanted to use the female locker room. Until she does, she needs to use the one where her parts match the other naked peoples. Why on Earth do you think the kids using the pool should be the ones to have their rights trampled over a 45 year old who feels the need to flash "her" penis around? Seriously? If you don't think she's a pervert, then how do you explain not using at least a damn towel in the sauna?
    YOURS.

    I am siding with her rights, because it's her state school, and the state law says so. And the teens are borrowing it.

    Quote Originally Posted by AlyssaEimers View Post
    The OP repedidtally says little girls.
    That's why i said it wasn't very objective. It clearly calls 17 year olds little girls over and over.
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    6 year old girls are little. 17 year old girls are still protected. 31 year old women are still protected.

    They should change their policy to match Penn States because I bet they are getting money from the organizations that use the pool that have the young children. Perverts shouldn't be allowed in the women's locker room no matter what they identify as. I don't care if he thinks he's a purple alien from the moon, he has a penis.


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    Quote Originally Posted by smsturner View Post
    SHE does still have male parts. SHE changed in the room, and used the sauna, but didn't purposefully flash kids. 17 year olds are NOT little girls.

    And honestly, I agree with you, I don't think I'm happy with my kids seeing ANY adult naked. But this was a state college, and the teens were using the state college locker room where SHE is a student. It's a locker room. They are a swim team. They are bound to see other flesh when changing. And really, is a 17 year old girl changing out of swim suits and different looking than an adult changing in a swim suit?
    If there are parents that don't want their 17 year olds changing with adults, they shouldn't have them swimming in a state college pool. Pretty much everyone there will be over 18.
    I can't believe you are turning this around on the parents of the MINOR females in the change room. Are you joking? Changing with strangers who are the same identifyable gender - i.e. changing with females who have female parts - is a world away from changing in front of a strange male with a penis. I don't care if (s)he flashed kids or not! His gentalia was exposed in front of a room full of strangers - adults and teens alike. If a man walked into our changeroom while my daughter is getting ready for swim lessons and he took off his clothes I would go bat $hit crazy. You'd be okay with a man hanging out his unit in front of your 17 year old daughter or 20 year old daughter or whatever? I for one and completely not okay with that.

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