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For those who are wondering what happened to her posts, there is an "explanation" on the Anything Topics board.

I know I shouldn't take this personally, but wow........deception sucks. I hope she gets the help she needs.

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"E-Koz" wrote:

For those who are wondering what happened to her posts, there is an "explanation" on the Anything Topics board.

I know I shouldn't take this personally, but wow........deception sucks. I hope she gets the help she needs.

I hope she gets the help she needs as well.

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SAme here.
I posted my response on the Nov 11 board.
Feel like I should apologise for her as shes a fellow Brit. Sad
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Oh no! I've known lots of wonderful Brits on this site (one even sent me Cadbury chocolate!!). I just feel...I felt, upset. I spent a good portion of the day the other day feeling seriously *down* for a stranger I had never met who was dealing with so much: the loss of triplets, a cheating husband, etc. I just feel like my real emotions were played on, and that hurts. I understand this is the internet, and therefore, no one should take it too seriously, I guess. BUT--we're all here, in this little community, trying to build up and support one another, so it felt like a big violation to me. :confused:

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I agree with you...its not nice to be decieved and on a site like this its even harder as we are all emotional and protective also.
With her though I wasn't taken in as it all seemed a little fishy...but there have been others who I have actually stiuck up for and given support too when they were called out and then you find out that you were defending a phantom.
like you, being upset and worried for her..its horrible.
And i would think there will be others too...we just have to make sure that the odd person here doesn't taint us...we don't want to become hardened as it would change the community we are in.
What we have to try and keep in mind is that the girl isn't well at all, she needs help very badly, and we have to hope she gets it and it doesn't spiral into something worse.
We all have to remember that we are there for each other through all rough times..including times like these.
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I thought she was a little fishy from the beginning. A newbie having triplets just didn't sit well with me, perhaps from past BB experience. I hope she gets help too. Clearly very sick.

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Well that just sucks, here i am feeling all bad for her. im going back into lurkdom until I have my IUI. I just hate people like that misery do love company. I pray God gives her the help she needs.

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Liz, I have found that lately they've always been British or at least made out they are. Luckily I am Manx Blum 3 haha.

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You know it...it makes me ashamed..but then i guess there is a chance she was all of them..
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It is very sad. And it makes no sense to me what so ever. I do get a feeling about a person, but it sucks when they have to be on the same board and nobody seems to notice the inconsistencies except a couple of people. I just have to hope in due time, they get cut from this site!!!!

It's not fair, ttc is so emotional and support is so wonderful here, I wish those fakes would go pretend they are rich, or famous or something and stay away from here!!!

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I feel really sad for her Sad I think I feel more sad after reading her post then I do about her loss of babies/husband cheating... And it makes me feel fortunate that I have a family and happy (mostly! hehe) in life... I can't imagine being depressed staying home all the time and the only joy I get is making up my life..

It also started to scare me a little bit because we "get to know" eachother on these boards, and on my last BB we sent gifts out- and had to give our address thinking we "knew" these strangers in a sense............ and what if one of us was not who we said we were??

Makes me think of private practice or the news where the crazy person comes and cuts out your baby because tehy want one so bad...

I'm thinkin I'll be facebooking this "person" if we do a gift exchange again hehe Smile

I'm counting my blessings tonight!

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Cait,

I was thinking the same thing!! I'm on FB and anyone from here is welcome to friend me. Just no "baby talk" on FB--we're keeping this a secret for now (even the TTC part).

http://www.facebook.com/erin.parmelee

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I've added you. Smile xx