Ladies...we have a code red

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xMyLovelyLadyBumpx's picture
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Ladies...we have a code red

Sooo I'm pregnant. (Found out this morning) Not at all planned and I have some mixed emotions. We had sex once with a condom...I'm in shock

RonanTheBarbarian's picture
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Oh Ashley congratulations!!!! Weren't you talking about baby fever a bit ago...??? Maybe that made you super fertile? My babies are 13 months apart and so far so good Smile congrats!!!!

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Congrats... do you know when about you are due?

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Not a clue! I had one "Period" I bled for maybe 2 days but it wasnt a constantly flow or anything. I havent told Shane yet (things are still rocky but he has been putting forth SOME effort. I think I'll be telling him tonight I want to do it sweetly but have NO idea how too since Im sure he will go into shock LOL)

I think I had pregnancy fever! lol Im happy yet nervous and upset all at once lol. Im sure once the shock wears off I'll be fully excited. I really wanted to wait at least until Rowan was 1. I just cant believe after trying for sooo long with him then to get pregnant out of nowhere!

My biggest fears are money with two tinys and my BFing relationship with Rowan. ): I have been feeling ill randomly and my supply has gone down a bit, so on a whim I was like well I better make sure Im not pregnant...HA! Holy smokes....

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That happened to me too with my 3rd. DS2 was 9 months old when I got pregnant... Had only had a couple really weird cycles, DS2 started having issues nursing... and low and behold, prego. I had to stop nursing because of my history of pre term contractions Sad Its a shock when you dont expect it, but it all works out in the end. Having 2 close together is challenging.. but then once the younger one is able to walk, and play, they keep each other entertained. I'm guessing you are due sometime in January??? Or maybe Feb. 1st???

Good luck telling DH. Hopefully hes not too shocked Wink

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My 2 youngest boys are 364 days apart. Irish twins are fun Smile
Just be ready for really ignorant comments.

xMyLovelyLadyBumpx's picture
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That was my cheap 88cent test from walmart lol I got 3 Answer brand tests and the test line is darker than the control in every test lol Im a nervous wreck.

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Nervous about due date? Do you remember the day you dtd? I'm so excited for you!!!

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"TyrantOfTheWeek" wrote:

My 2 youngest boys are 364 days apart. Irish twins are fun Smile
Just be ready for really ignorant comments.

:lurk: Congratulations Ashley! I know you're in shock. I have some very close in age like Mindie's. It works out and mine are best of friends (LOL *most* of the time anyway!!)

((((HUGS)))) I hope that telling Shane goes smoothly for you. Either way, know you have all of us throughout the community as your personal cheerleading squad!

Take care,

~Missy

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Elin- I cant remember what I ate for breakfast most days LOL We only DTD 2 times but that still puts me between late December and early Feb! Oh goodness, Im going to lose my poor mind. Guess I'll have to wait to see my OB or Midwife since I'll have both this time. Im hoping for a water birth!

Missy&Mindie-Thanks for the positive vibes! (: Im just beyond words, but getting more and more exctied!

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Get on dandelion root now to try and prevent pre-e this time.

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I plan on it!! Its been hard to find in our small town but we are going into town this weekend so i will hunt it down!

TyrantOfTheWeek's picture
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Order it online. What did your husband say?

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He's just now accepting the idea of another, he always wanted three but just didnt think number three would be RIGHT NOW. Not that I blame him, I mean this came out of left field, heck sometimes I find it hard to believe too.

And he has been helping out a bit more, which is nice (and the helping started before I told him so yay) We are doing a marriage saver book, so far its really been helpful.