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This is my first time here!

I have 2 beautiful children and am expecting #3 in Feb! ive never been on a site like this so not sure how it works but just wanted to say that im alittle stressed out because my family does not agree with my husband and i decision to have another baby. i have a very large family and i enjoyed it very much! they said we wont be able to provide attention to all of them...........?????? WTF! we do just fine now and am more than sure that we can manage a 3rd. i guess im just tired of getting looked at like i have a disease Sad

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Welcome!!!
Here's how I see it: EVERY baby is a blessing! Also- if you are able to have that many and want to- that's AWESOME! Something kind of funny- my sister had 3 before I even had my first and I thought she was a LITTLE crazy- but now that I've had 1 of my own I can picture having 3 or even 4! I wonder if people are jealous or maybe just don't understand? Sorry they act like that- it really isn't their place to be anything but happy for you! There are families with 10 or more kids that do great- so I think that 3 is something people shouldn't even bat an eye at really.
I hope you stay with our board and like it too!

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I am the eldest of 3 kids and my mom did just fine with 3 kids, tho of course it's more work.

We all are very much loved by my mom. And when mom didn't have attention for all of us, we had each other.

I think you'll be a great mom to all 3 kids. It's really a decision between you and hubby and nobody else. I really wish pple who aren't involved in the babymaking process would just shut up and keep their opinions to themselves.

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"yipeeladybug" wrote:

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I am the eldest of 3 kids and my mom did just fine with 3 kids, tho of course it's more work.

We all are very much loved by my mom. And when mom didn't have attention for all of us, we had each other.

I think you'll be a great mom to all 3 kids. It's really a decision between you and hubby and nobody else. I really wish pple who aren't involved in the babymaking process would just shut up and keep their opinions to themselves.

The bold. For sure. People are so damn nosy and rude when it comes to how many children people want for their own family. Eff them.

Congrats and welcome! Smile

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Welcome and Congrats!

People are foolish and nosey. Its a damn shame people dont leave well enough alone. I think every baby is a blessing and should be cherished no matter what number they are 1 or 20. (:

Ignore their ignorance and be a happy momma!

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Congrats and welcome!
It's no one's business but yours how many kids you have. I don't know why ANYONE thinks it's ok to comment!!!!