BFN....(sad)

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BFN....(sad)

No AF.....No Cramps.....No nothing........I am really really really really sad......I feel just like I did when I was taken infertilty drugs and NOTHING(disappointed)..........I trying not to :bawl:..............so.........

Well.........I have two choices......
1. I could wait and see if I start on my own(only God nows when that would be)

2. I can wait until Friday test again and if its negative again.....start my prescription provera,that would be day 41... if I do that, I would not have a cycle until the middle of June,..thats one good thing that is in my favor.....I have a mild case of pcos...if my cycle stops or go longer I can always get a prescription called in for me :rolleyes:

I may go with option 2 because we are going on vacation June 1- June 10 and I don't want to give :witch: the satifaction of showing up on my vacation...You know she is known for that....

I guess maca may not be for me...especially if it stops my cycle all together...I have to rethink this again....

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:bigarmhug: I'm so sorry Michelle!

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Sad I'm so sorry.

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Thanks ladies....I trying my best not to cry...I just told my DH and he is making this really hard for me....not in a bad way. he wants another child as much as I do so....he just got quiet and walk off...it just hurts to see that he is hurting as well...he just told me it will be ok but I know he only trying to confort me.....

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Im so sorry !! Have you tried IUI or IVF?

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"MrsV2B" wrote:

Im so sorry !! Have you tried IUI or IVF?

Yeah we have tried 6 IUI's with my DH insurance I think we have a total of 7 ore eight I cant remember so I know I have either one or two more times as far as insurance goes.....IVF's is so expensive and DH insurance is real particular on certain things even with the IUI's only the doctor could do it..... ..I've done the clomids, injection( dont like the side effect), OPK's, monitoring and IUI's that was expensive enough....IVF that's a whole new level... I got pregnanct with my DS on clomid thats another story so I really want to ttc as natural as possible since this will be our last child.....

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:bigarmhug: I hope you get your natural pregnancy soon, Michelle!

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I'm so sorry, Michelle. Sad

I know how frustrating long and unpredictable cycles can be. Do you temp? I found that temping was more accurate in pinpointing my O date. OPKs are really unreliable for me. I get multiple days of false positives and about a week or more later I get multiple days of true positives. Maybe you could give temping a try? I'll keep my fingers crossed for a natural bfp for you!!

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I'm sorry. BFNs stink Sad
:bigarmhug:

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"JKfmAustin" wrote:

I'm so sorry, Michelle. Sad

I know how frustrating long and unpredictable cycles can be. Do you temp? I found that temping was more accurate in pinpointing my O date. OPKs are really unreliable for me. I get multiple days of false positives and about a week or more later I get multiple days of true positives. Maybe you could give temping a try? I'll keep my fingers crossed for a natural bfp for you!!

I know temping requires a lot of dicipline and my sleep patterns are not that great might so I don;t know how accurate it will be......once my cycle start I might try temping this cycle

Well i know I had a true melt down on yesturday and it so early in the new baby game....This morning a felt a lot better....I may give maca another try, it says to give it a less 3 months to regulate your cycle naturally so why not....... if I gave clomid a chance why not give maca another chance....

Thanks Ladies