i am feeling hurt and upset because the doulas i have interviewed are all part of the same association/ group. I was going to pick the first one or possible have two, and by the time my 3 interview came I didn't even get a decency of a cancellation phone call, she emailed me to cancel our interview.
When i called to ask a few more questions from the first 2 instead of calling me back they both emailed me and said bull**** excuse as to why they weren't available/ not a good mach. I never thought i would be rejected by birth doula 3 times.
I feel like one must no have liked me or dh, and told the other two.
I feel sad, let down and hurt, because i felt like both interviews went well.
its as if they just didn't want me as a client.
I mean fine if you are that unprofessional then maybe i don't want you as my doula.
Now i feel like i wasted time, and energy that could have been better spent looking elsewhere.
I know i need extra support for my birth since dh is disabled and my mom has to watch Lilly.
so much for the theory of every women deserving a birth doula.
vent vent vent....
anyone else have any experience in hiring a doula?