Hey all. I'm Angela. I actually use to post here last year. I started gardening as an outlet, but as with anything else, DH took over and isn't actually teaching me anything. I think he liked the idea of the outlet too. LOL
Anyway, I feel like we are WAY behind this year. We have been getting some projects done around the house and planting lots of stuff hasn't happened yet. I know we have some strawberries, lettuce, spinach, 1 red bell pepper, and 1 other type of pepper plant and 3 types of tomatoes (1 plant of each type). I actually was just commenting to DH about being late and he said he didn't think we were. He thought it had just been too wet to really get it going. Last year we did pots, but this year we did raised beds. Anyway, I really have more of a black thumb. DH is the one with the green thumb. I want to help DH, but he seems to have a system that I don't completely understand and he's not communicating with me what I can do.
Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Welcome! Maybe see if you can plant a couple plants in a pot that are just yours to take care of? Or as DH if he would explain his system to you?
It sounds like your DH needs to stop being selfish and LET YOU GARDEN!! LOL!! For reals though, maybe if you just asked him what his methods were you could lend a hand?
I like the idea of your own pots too!! They are a lot easier to handle when small and confined!!!
No worries on the black thumb... as you can see from my other posts? I am already on a second try this season! :ROFL:
Gardening is just one of the great learning curves!
I like the idea of having my own pots too. Or asking him to help me be responsible for one area of our raised beds since getting dirt would be an issue. If could get dirt it might be better with the pots. But that is mostly the problem. DH gets the dirt and does the composting, etc. and then never communicates what to do. He's not frustrated he just does it rather than say "let's go tend to the garden" or anything. I ask questions and he doesn't help me understand what to do. I actually think I get more frustrated than he does.
Angela, I think you need to meet my pets. :) One day I will post a picture, but here's the scoop:
They live in a black plastic box under the eaves.
I'd estimate the "colony" has increased to 100,000 or more.
I toss my shredded newspaper in for litter.
We add veggie scraps every now and then as food (economical little dudes)
Every couple weeks I scoot all the nice castings to one side and add new bedding to the other.
Two or three days later they get fed only within the new bedding.
When I get around to it, I remove the absolutely wonderfully marvelous worm castings/compost/super soil.
Add more scraps and more shredded (and soaked overnight and wrung out) paper.
Repeat on a relatively irregular schedule.
The wonderful thing about these little critters is that they don't mind my schedule at all and it can be VERY erratic. The gallon of worm castings I get to mix in with my potting soil's just a perk.
Have you thought of making an herb garden in pots, just for you? I find being able to dash out for a handful of mint, chives, basil... really soothing to my spirit. Maybe it's aromatherapy and maybe it's just seeing the miracle of growth one more time that does it.
I actually potted some basil and parsley and they are doing great (inside). Although the parsley seems quite "stringy". There are leaves, but I don't know what a parsley plant is suppose to look like. I'm thinking I might need to plant some more in that. That might help. I'd like to do chives and some others as well.
You're funny about the "pets". We actually compost nearly everything. It's quite funny because although I don't see myself as particularly "green", I apparently am. I just can't make things grow. I do have great visions. I'll post a pick of my "vision" that DH helped put together.
I just know last year we had salad ALL the time and we don't have anything yet.
It has taken me 10 years to get to the point of having a producing garden. It is a learning process. Each year you learn from the previous years mistakes. You will get there. Just keep trying.
Knowing that helps a great deal. And because I am doing this as an outlet, I think it's easier for me stick with it. I think the other thing that would help me and it might seem silly to DH, but it would help if he did those rows so I could tell where the plants are vs weeds.
delete silly double post.
Gardening is more of a hobby for me as well. I am sure I will never save as much money as I put into my garden. It is just very rewarding to eat something that you planted.
Originally Posted by wishing4agirl