Mad Ramblings of ME!
WARNING:TYPOS,SPELLING ERRORS AND LOTS OF OFFENSIVE THINGS BELOW...DONT LIKE IT DONT READ IT BYZTCH!
I am Stefine age 23 from the USA.:loveUSA: I have been married 5.5 yrs and have 3 young boys ages 4,2.5,1.5. I am due with a girl in mid Feb. I am currently a SAHM.:bigarmhug:
Pat is my hubby...he is 29 and a computer scientist.
Riley is my 4 yr old son
Ryan is my 2.5 yr old Son
Adam is my 1.5 yr old son
Julia is my baby to be added
My Mom is my 53 yr old disabled woman
I have 2 sisters...Jen 27 and Amanda 28
One annoying dog Roxie...hate her(long story but she makes Marley look angelic)
So today I wake up at 5:30 and decide I am not longer sleepy...wanna wake up before the kiddos get up...My oldest goes to pre-k so he has to be up and ready at 7:30.
I watch the season finale of "Teen Mom." God that was a tear jerker...I loved the 16 and preggo and teen mom show..I also watched Chopped...also love it too...thank god for DVR or else I would NEVER watch TV!
I get the kids up and ready...almost miss My oldest Son Riley's bus becuase I forget to turn the sign that says to 'Pick up." around..So I catch them the second time around since Rileys buss comes by twice...they werent happy but in retrospect they would have had to waste that time stopping the first time!
Pre-k for Riley ahs its challenges...one Riley wants to stay home...he is a mamas boy...but thats not helping him get ready for school...2 the teachers try to find any issue to cause stress over...for instance..they say he has a fever(he then has to be fever free for 24 hrs so no pre-k which isnt helping his streess over pre-k) 2 times..he comes home...I take his temp and NO FEVER!!!!! So after them doing that to me 2 times...I take him to the doc's ....no issues at all...he is fine!!! I think they are just finding reasons to keep him home instead of trying to teach him and help him over come his anxiety.
Before it was he has a rash(he has excema) and had to have a dr. excuse to come back....then it was pink eye(which he didnt have) he also needed a doc's excuse to come back... Finally they sad Rileys been acting sad and emotional at Pre-k and they have to have me and DH(who was working 2-3 jobs then) at a meeting to discuss this...at first they just said they neeed to talk to us and wouldnt tell me whats up...then after me crying thinking something was wrong on the phone she let me come in and talked to just me w/out DH...Who was also stressing!!! So here I am running around with 3 kids jumping thier hoops so he can attend pre-k!!!! UGGGHHHH! Just do ur job ppl teach them,play with them not try and find problems with them..:mad:
So right now my boys are playing right by me in the living room...my computer is on....I handle the karate business online during the day...so its aways on...but since the kids toys are all here and so are they I can do both ...
OMG! Seen the worst baby name today!
The mid name was bad too but darn...thats a crime...must be an ethnic person!:rolleyes:
Ha...I am mean...who cares ppl like to be mean to me...why cant I to them?!
Of course my Gee (Ryan) is sick..nice cant go a freakin week w/out a sick kid or a docs appt..
My mom is sick also so I hope my MIL can watch my 2 guys for my appt tommorrow...its my c/s date scheduing appt. IMPORTANT!
oF COURSE dh IS SUPOOSED TO BE HOME WITH MEDS FOR MY gEE BUT IT IS 7 PM AND HE IS STILL OUT DICKING AROUND FROM WHEN I called him at 530!
Today he was supposed to hear what pay raise/benefits they are offering him now thta he graduated from college...he will let me know later. PINS AND NEEDLES PPL!
Okay...so DH didnt get the pay raise I (and I think he) hoped for so he is looking for another job while working at his current job...he has quite the resume...5 years in the USAF,4 yrs of college for his bachelors in computer science and 3 yrs working in the IT department of his current place...his current job basically can't afford to pay him anymore then what they offered..
The weather is super crappy out and I have my important appt today...along with no baby sitter becuase my mom is sick and my dh forgot to ask his mom...my sister is in school today.
okay...Mrs Julia Marie S will arrive Feb 17th via c/s!
This will be my 4th and final c/s....didnt plan to have 4 c/s's but RILEY STARTED THE BALL ROLLING!
With RIley my water broke a 31wks 3 days preggo...I was on hospital bed rest for 3 days before my heartrate/white blood cells increased and so did his heartrate(they lost his for a few mins)...we were both very sick! I had been laboring for 3 days to no avail(iron cervix) so my doc sent me out with an emergancy c/s.He was born at 32 wks at 5lbs 1.2 oz's they were so shocked and thought he was much further along but I had a u/s at 9wks 5days that confirmed his EDD of April 7th...he was born feb 14th.
So then with Ryan I started to labor at 37wks 4 days along...he was breech with his lil head under my left breast...he needed to be a repeat c/s even tho I wanted a VBAC.
ADam and Miss Jewels will have no choice but to exit stage front!:p
So hubby took 2 of my 3 to his moms to let me catch up on house work...I vacumed,did all my wash,cleaned the bathroom,unloaded the dishes and reloaded them and finished redecorating my older sons room...kids come home and blamo...popcorn all over and cereal noW this am! yOU JUST CANT HAVE A CLEAN HOUSE W/3 KIDS!
mY MOMS 54TH B-DAY WAS YESTERDAY...SHES GETTING OLD LOL!
Okay...this week dragged...did nothing but watch kiddos and do house work...ugh!
I also managed to get broncitis! Imagine coughing with round ligiment pain!
My mom is once agian SICK and is acting like an involed.....not wanting to do anything but sleep and eat(mind you she just has a cold and is a 300lb woman wanting to change all that) she says its all my kids fault why she is sick...it pisses me off...we were making progress to help her move on her own and eventually get a job but she cant walk due to bad knees and she is cronically ill...she has mild empahsema form all her years of smoking so much for the whole"Smoking is the only thing I can enjoy bit." right mom!!!!
So now worryin about her has put me in to a depression...she is more than likely giving up and preparing to die...my only parent...as my father, Ronald Wintemute, a low life didnt want anything to do with me. It stinks..
so yesterday was my Pre-opp appt...baby is healthy...I lost a lb...prob gained close to 30lbs so good for me to lose one! I may need a hysterectomy due to my 3 previous c-sections and my anterior placenta there is a small chance the placenta grew into my scar and will get cut causing me to hemmorage. So I will have 2 iv's(lovely not) and blood to transfuse waiting fo rme in the OR on D-day!
All has been good this wk...hoping the time comes fast to meet my baby!
<LABEL id=pBlogSubject_529640679>Julias.birth story</LABEL>
<!--- blog body --->So I knew of my babys birth day for 3 wks...I counted them days down till tues(the night before c/s) I was excited but sad as this my last pregnancy. I couldnt get to sleep knowing my baby would be born in a few short hours...the moment a woman has kids she waits for her daughter to be born...it was finally happening...I had my boys now it was time for my girl.
So at 4:45am I got dressed and by 5am I was ready...we left the house for the hospital by 510am,got there at 5:40 am (a nice quiet night drive). It was quiet at the labor and delivery and as soon as I came in they got me in my room and prepared for my c-section(iv,cath,acid reducing drink and shaved)
my last belly pic)
(was so tired)
(my dh in his baby uniform)
it all went fast and before I knew it I was getting in to the OR,getting my epi in(I had the epidoral shock this time...ekk) and they had started.one nurse asked "What is your name and what are you in here for today." Of course my tubal and a c-section.
My hubby came in and held my hand...at 731 am Julia was born with, as predicted a bush of black hair, and a fiesty cry...
"It a GIRL." was cried by the nurses...I was in my own world of happiness and shock..
They asked me if I was sure I wanted a tubal...I was sure...later on they told me it was a good thing due to my thin uterus.
Once closed up they wheeled me in the post Opp/pre Opp room...I was super exhausted and couldnt keep my eyes open...Jewels was with grandpa and Daddy...she was safe..
I was put in my own room where all the nurses (due to me having one of few babies born that day) knew of Julia being my last and only girl of 4 kiddos...so she got blankies and other stuff for a girl
...it was nice...to be honest I never had a kid at that hospital and didnt have good experiances there either...but it was a great birth there and all went better than planned.
Julia is a super calm,quiet baby unless she is dirty/hungry she has a zesty cry...she is a great nurser...what a way to complete my family!
coming home in carseat
holdin a paci
dressed 4 coming home...
he heee I took a maternity leave so to say from this journal..
Eveything has been great...I love having my girl and boys...life is okay besides all that who could ask for more?!:yahoo:
Had an appt for julia today she is 14lbs even and 25.5 inches long...for some reason she measured smaller at my wic appt...she is 90% for length and 60% for height...she is doing greats...doing as expected..
tinks(Adam) let me tell u about tinks...this lil guy is a ham he happens to be Grandmas pride and joy...she spoils him...get this he was my Gender Desire baby...I once wished he were a girl! Can you believe it...I have no regrets now...he is gorgeous and he is such a clown but boy can he get in to trouble!! So fa rhe go in to my make up,got in to my recycling bags and spread them all over,took his soiled diaper off and ran around cammando...ewww...he kept stealing cheese from the fridge...sigh...my hands are full with him...his cry when he was first born sounded lik "AH-OH AH-OH AH-OH." the doc said"Oh he is gonna be trouble when he gets older...lol truer words were never spoken better than that sentence!:eek::o
:rolleyes: so today my middle son Ryan, who I admit is a goofy clown sometimes(but he is gorgeous!) is riding around in his powerwheels cop car and keeps talking to something in the passenger seat...I braved my self to ask "What are you doing Gee?"(nickname for Ryan) He looks up at me with those innocent blue eyes and with his slightly slurred 3 yr old voice"I am taking a wormy on a ride!":ROFL: