Jacob swears to me he saw his sister. We were on our way to the grocery store and drove past the cemetary where she's buried. He started yelling "Mama look! Julia is flying around in there. She's having fun. Can we go play too?" I thought it was just because he knows that that is where she is, and maybe it is. But somedays he tells us she's not there because she doesn't feel like playing. Maybe it's his way of dealing with something he doesn't fully understand.....I don't know.