Dh and I finally had THE talk about baby #3. His main concern is not wanting a repeat of the last pregnancy and it scares him. Let me introduce myself and start at the beginning. My name is Kathleen and I am a mommy two a boy age 4 and a girl soon to be 3. When pregnant with my son they told me one of his kidneys was enlarged. When he was born they did an ultrasound on him and saw it was still larger but not abnormal. When born he was also Coombs positive meaning my blood and his was not mixing well I think. Other than these things the pregnancy was really good. Next was my daughter. At her 20 week ultrasound they found an echogenic focus on the heart and two cysts on her brain. These were markers for Downs. We went the whole prengancy worried. Things did not work itself out til she was born and they checked her out. Then she had a mummer that resolved itself in a weeks rime.
Dh is scared of another pregnancy with complications to the baby. I cant blame him, but I am sad that it is holding him back from really being onboard. I do have to say that I am scared too. I dont know if there is a way to find out why I keep having.issues with the pregnancies. I dont know if there ia a place to start with that. I know I will spend the pregnancy worrying even though I dont want to.