Ok this is me letting some steam off, but I would love some advice as well. I feel like such a horrible wife lately. I had to sit down and talk with my husband because I feel like he hasnt been doing his part at all. The nausea has really been getting to me and I've been xhausted and just trying to lay down and rest as much as possible. I cant even go outside cause it makes me more nauseated with the humidity and heat (not to mention the mosquitos love me) I'm the only one in this house cleaning, taking the trash out doing everything around the house. After we talked he has otten better with helping and he realized he hasnt been doing his part by not going to work and not fixing the car and always sending me out to the store. We are now behind on bills getting last notices and all. It is so stressful right now and im hoping he gets his *** in gear. Yes I understand I need to be working as well. And I've been in the process of transfering my nursing license except I have to retake the test for NC since this state doesnt have reciprocity. Last night he comes in the room when I'm trying to sleep and starts telling me he is jealous of the computer and upset that I dont sit outside with him more often and to me it sounded like he was just telling me he wanted all my attention...which later he admitted. He's become so clingy lately.... thats the main reason he hasnt been going to work cause he doesnt want to be away from me. I havent even been sleeping in the bed with him cause he just wants to lay on me. I dont know what to do. I dont handle clingy well. He was never like this before. He knows I'm independent and that its driving me insane to be at home. But is it really fair for him to get irritated that I fall asleep during the day? Or that I get on the computer to talk to my family and friends since I am 3000 miles away from them all? And the other night he kind of yelled at me and said if I got off the computer maybe I could go make some real friends.....I thoughtt that was hurtful. It was 11 pm, what am I suppose to do? Go walk down the road asking people to be my friend? Ok this is long enough, sorry its so much but I had to get it out before I exploded.