I'm getting a baby shower after all. I felt bad at first because this is my 3rd boy so I don't "need" anything, but I have a friend that just told me she wants to throw one anyway. I thought it would be rude to tell her not to as SHE is the one that said she wanted to do it. I didn't ask her. It's not so much a baby shower though. It's more of a diaper party. I told her that all we really need is diapers, and changing stuff, and maybe bath stuff. So I guess I will be getting a diaper party in mid November sometime. It's going to be interesting to see how people react to us having another "baby shower". I've already gotten one more negative comment about it.