Who is not finding out the gender?
I don't want too, we have 2 girls and 2 boys and I would love to have a surprise this is going to be our tie breaker! But hubby wants to know so I said fine the dr can show you and you don't tell me. He can not tell anyone else and I am not sure if he can do that or not.
So he was trying to bribe me, he said that if I want to know he would pay for one of those early gender scans 3d/4d place at 16 weeks. He is so mean! Our ob office does 3d but only at 32 weeks. So not sure what to do :confused: