haha, Jackie, I'm the same way, I feel like DH & I have to DTD every day, and get nervous or upset if we don't (around OV time) I feel like the more the better! While of course it's fun, sometimes I feel like it the same over and over, so lately we've tried changing it up w/ new positions and/or locations (sorry TMI!)....and so far, DH has enjoyed himself
You girls are lucky. I can't get DH to BD more than twice in a row. My request for BDing have to be accurate, as I don't want to wear him out before O!
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OMG - it is such a breath of fresh air to hear you ladies say that DH doesn't always want to DTD! The first few months of us TTC, it wasn't REALLY tough to get him to DTD, he said he felt "pressured" when I was like "I'm ovulating, let's go!" I only did this b/c we aren't every other day type of people, and I just didn't want to miss our chance....but I also didn't know when I OV, so we started like CD 12, but by CD 15, he wasn't having it, and I'd get upset, and we'd fight, and I felt like he subconciously didn't want to have a baby, or wasn't attracted to me, blah blah.
Luckily things have improved, and I entice him with new locations and/or positions
Wow! i swear i thought i was the only woman with that problem. DH is 22 but just doesnt have much of a drive so its hard to get him in the mood. lol ive been all stressed about it lately cuz i O like tomorow. im hoping if i try new things he'll get his drive back some. haha its good to know im not alone on this!
Actually the reason I joined this site is b/c I was talking to a g/f about the "issues" between DH & I and DTD. She actually became very good friends with her birth month group - like to the point that they have met in real life, & are still very close, 6 years later - & said that some really nice women are on this site and suggest I see if anyone else was gong thru this issue. & I must agree, she was right, everyone here is so nice, & I look forward to getting to know everyone a little bit more