So today after a long fought battle between my mother and i, I had to swallow my pride raise the white flag and beg for her help. in the middle i ended up crying (partially the hormones partially not so much) and telling how sorry i was for our long feud. see my husband and i are $500 in the hole and we are about to lose our apartment and i dont know what to do. our wedding cost a lot and my father who promised to help pay still hasn't held up his end of our bargain. this is our first place together and we are completely grown adults now, but i dont know what to think or do or say. no-one will hire a pregnant woman and so we are stuck waiting to see if anymore of our family can help. the worst part of all of this is that this will be our last month being so deep in trouble because he will start getting an extra $2100 a month on top of $1050 by the end of next month for his married with dependents BAH. am i the only woman in here who has eer faced this problem in the beginning of marriage?