Okay, so I am still in college right now, and I have two semesters left after this one, and then one semester of student teaching. My plan was to get pregnant while student teaching, take a semester off, then start teaching in the fall.
However, DH is pressing really hard for me to get pregnant...NOW! His mindset is that if we wait till I am finished with school, Evyn will be 4 1/2 and he will be 33. He doesn't want to wait any longer, but I want to finish school first. It has been the main conversation in our house lately, where he wants me to get pregnant, take a semester off of school, then go back after the baby is born.
So my question to you is, what would you do? I really didn't want my kids to be that far apart in age, and if I get pregnant now, they would only be 3 1/2 years apart. It would push my graduation date back at least one more semester, that is if I have the energy to go back at all.
On the other hand, I think it wouldn't be that big of a deal for them to be 4 1/2-5 years apart, and I would have my degree and we would be more financially stable (with me having an income).
I really need some advice, because DH gets so upset when he thinks that we won't have another one for almost two years.