I thought it was normal toddler stuff, but now I'm starting to worry that EJ is a little OCD. I'm a very routine oriented person, and Everett is too. He doesn't flex well from the normal routine (including how we exit the vehicle, what order, what door).I kind of consider him the monster I've created.
BUT lately if things don't go his way he wants to start it over again completely. For example: today he left a toy in the car and didnt get it when I asked him about it so we went into the house. 30 minutes later he asked about it and I said he needed to stay with D while I got it b/c it would take too long with both of us. He flipped out so I carried him to the car, got the toy and carried him back into the house. He wanted to walk so for 10 minutes he cried he wanted to put the toy back in the car and do it over again so he could walk there.
Is this normal or is it more OCD than the usual toddler?
I understand flipping out for not getting his way, I'm OK with that, it's the wanting to do it over the way he thinks is right even after the fact that makes me a little nervous.