So over easter we went for dinner at my in laws house. We finally were able to show the 3D video to my DH grandmother and aunt/uncle which i thought they would be really excited about (at least his grandmother, because she has never seen something like that before) This is the first grandchild on either side of the family so everyone has been really excited, especially his grandmother, so after 2-3 minutes of the dvd playing his grandmother says "wow, your baby is already fat and you still have two months to go" I just kind of gave her a weak smile and didnt say anything because she is old and doesnt quite have a filter on what she says anymore. So a few more minutes in she makes another comment about how our baby looks fat and all i am thinking is ok, i want to turn this dvd off now because these arent the comments i really care about hearing..... but we continue to watch.......in which my MIL decides to join in "he does look like he has a lot of fat for how far along you are" Not one good comment the entire time the dvd was played!! I know his family is very screwed up with food and eating. His grandmother had two kids and was never over 100 pounds with either pregnancy and makes sure to tell me every time i see her that the most she gained with either pregnancy was 12 pounds and then continues to ask how much i have gained and then says "wow thats alot of weight" Both of her kids were born a month early and weighed just over 4 pounds and my MIL almost died because of how unhealthy she was once she was born, maybe if she actaully gained some weight that wouldnt have happened!! i hate going over to his family's place because i feel like a whale, but i can deal with it, but why do they think its ok to make me feel like my unborn baby is already to fat for this world! I asked my Dr at my last appt how my baby was measuring for size and he said a little under average and said that was perfectly fine and normal so he cant be that fat! I have been in a mood ever since sunday, maybe this vent will help!