Not becasue I think I need one. All my kids share a room right now. But becasue I am going to have 4 kids and they are 3 boys and 1 girl I need a 4 bedroom.
Town said you can't have more then 2 kids in each room and same sex can't share. :eek: So if I want to move out I need to have 4 rooms, 1 for Peter, 1 for Tessa, and 1 for Heath and the baby and still have one for me. I don't even get childsupport that would cover the cost of the rent let alone all the other bills that go with having a home. Now if I bought a home you can do what you want but to rent this is the rule. :confused:
How and I ever going to move out on my own and not live at Dad's?? AS it is we are not going to VT to be with Bill, becasue of insurance and programs for Heath being better in NY. I hate that all my kids are just in one huge 200sf room in the finished basment at Dad's and I am in my childhood room with my king sized bed and the room is so small that we had to put he dresser in the closet. Anything that is not cloths is still in storage in boxes. They have 3 twin beds, 2 dressers and 2 toy boxes in the room with them an it has no closet.
I have been here 6 months and only expect to be here a short time, but now it is looking more like 2 years (when Bill gets out of the army) and I am at that stage of prego where I want to nest. I keep thinking WTF where am I going to nest I don't have room for a swing/crib let alone another dresser for baby stuff here. And I feel "or he tells me" daily how stuff of the kids is in his way and I am so ready to be an adult and make the rules and not feel like I live at home and have to follow someone elses rules.