I have two questions.....first after the baby is born and we are in the hospital what does the baby wear?? Should i be packing clothes for the baby to wear while staying in the hospital or do i just have to worry about going home clothes? And do i need to bring a little hat for him to wear since i always see the babys on tv wearing them after they are born (stupid question i know) I want to have my bag packed by the beginning of june and probaby wont see my OB until mid june to ask what the hospital policy is. My second question has to do with visiting family once the baby is born, My grandparents/aunt and uncle live about 25 minutes from the hospital we are delivering at, i never really knew them growing up but have seen them a few times within the last few years, i know it would mean alot to my grandparents if they got to see the baby, because of health issues they wouldnt be able to visit in the hospital and i know if we wait until we are more settled a few weeks later the visit will likely not happen since they live over two hours away. Im trying to decide if i should offer to drop by for a quick visit after we check out of the hospital, but obviously i have no idea how i am going to be feeling in regards to pain and exhaustion and how well the baby is going to be feeling? I know everyone is different and handle delivery different but i thought id ask what your experience and opinions are?