DD is a month old. DH takes the "night shift" from my last feeding (a few minutes ago) until she sleeps, does a bottle when she wakes and puts her to bed in our room afterwards. He has a terrible time getting her to sleep after I nurse her. I know it's evening and "fussy time" but if I take her she calms down and at least isn't screaming. I do need to sleep so I usually go to bed with earplugs on. She cries no matter what he does so he choses to wear noise canceling headphones and just lay her on his chest swaddled up (that works any other time of day). The crying breaks my heart but he gets upset when I interfere and I do need to get to bed. What do you think? Just let her cry? I do suggest some things and he tries but it's tough for him. He's starting to feel like DD only cries for him. I don't remember this being so difficult with DD1. Are any of you going through the same thing?