I started working again about 1.5 years ago as a teacher. I had stayed home for 5 years with other two kids and really needed to get back out there for my own sanity. I enjoyed staying home with them and was very involved in all kinds of stuff in the community but was very happy to get back to work.
Now that baby #3 is on the way I was hoping to go part time and finally was able to talk to my principal about it. When I told DH about it tonight he told me that he feels this is unfair to the baby because I stayed home with the other two and when #3 is older he may resent me for not staying home with him too.
I told him that #3 would be better off with a happier mom who is working part time. He just looked at me and shrugged and said well you know how I feel - I think you should stay home.
I am torn as to what to do, if I were to take a year off the part time position that I want likely won't be available anymore and I love working with my kids at school but I really don't want to make him mad.
I would likely be working from 9:30- 2:45 every day.