So does anyone have any plans of how your are going to announce the news to your Family, In-laws, Friends?
When we got PG with DD, my Dad was the first family member I called. I'm glad I did because he never got to meet her. He passed away when I was 5 Months pregnant. My mom I held off till Mothers day since I found out in April and I wrapped up a test and gave it to her as her gift. He called and told his mom the same day we found out so nothing exciting there. I told my friends right after I took the tests bc I needed help obsessing over the light BFP line.
This time around I think I'm going to do the I'm the Big sister Shirt. That's all I thought of right now. Close friends I'll probably tell right away, Rest of the Family I will probably wait till I'm out of the first trimester.
I'm just hoping His mom takes the news well because she's been watching DD for us exclusively since my mom hasn't been able to because of health reasons. So this would mean she would have 2 to deal with. But on the other hand the baby would be about 3 months before she would have to worry about it because I'm planning on staying home 3 months this time instead of 2 since we will have things figured out where we can afford it. I'll get 1 month paid leave through work, I also have 3 weeks paid vacation, plus 3 personal days, and 6 sick days. Then we will just need to save a months worth of bills to take the extra month off. Which will be nice because then I would go back sometime in October of next year. That is if we are in fact pregnant right now. Of course the time frame of when I would go back would be different if we aren't.