Saying goodbye (m/c ment)

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aphart0's picture
Joined: 11/21/08
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Saying goodbye (m/c ment)

I am saying goodbye to you wonderful ladies. This little one just wasn't meant to be. I had some brown spotting on Sunday and then it continued on Monday. I called the nurse at my doctor's office and she said if it would make me feel better I could come in for an u/s. Unfortunately what we saw, or more like what we didn't see, didn't make me feel any better. All that we could see was an empty sac that was too small to even give a due date (the u/s tech said it would usually measure at about 5 and a half weeks) even though I was 7 weeks and 3 days at that point. A doctor came in and told me that I should come in for another u/s in a week to see if things progressed, otherwise I would probably start to bleed red which would mean that I was having a miscarriage. Well, I have now started to bleed red. I was completely devastated on Monday after the u/s but I am starting to come to terms with it all. I am just ready to move past all of this so that we can start trying again.

I want to thank you all for the past few weeks though. I had a blast on here and wish you all the best of luck with your little ones. Please keep your siggys on!!

Kayla1981's picture
Joined: 01/04/07
Posts: 1529

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope the coming holidays will help brighten your spirits a little. ((BIG HUGS))

ChrissyD2103's picture
Joined: 10/09/07
Posts: 526

I am so sorry!!! (((HUGS)))

TessaS's picture
Joined: 11/19/11
Posts: 100

Omg I am so sorry! I remember you mentioning the brown discharge. So many time they tell you not to worry. There is nothing else you could have done. I am glad that you are able to come to terms a little bit, and I hope you have wonderful support of your family and friends. We will miss you!

Joined: 05/06/04
Posts: 106

I am so sorry I remember reading your post and hoping that things turned out perfectly for you.

nmpiche's picture
Joined: 08/29/07
Posts: 508

Mandy, I am so sorry. This happened to me and I know it's so terribly disappointing when you were so ready to have a little baby in your arms. Try to take some time for yourself and good luck TTC once you've recovered. We'll miss you!

sookysunky's picture
Joined: 11/29/11
Posts: 62

I'm so sorry this happened. I was really hoping things would turn out differently. I hope the holidays bring you some wonderful time with family. We will miss you. ((BIG HUG!!))

Mandie565's picture
Joined: 03/01/08
Posts: 693

Oh Mandy I'm so sorry. I was really hoping things would turn out differently for you. Glad to hear your coming to terms. Hope your able TTC soon!! Good Luck in your TTC Journey!

MommyQCT's picture
Joined: 06/12/08
Posts: 387

Oh Mandy... I am so sorry to hear this. Good luck in your TTC journey.

Cinn's picture
Joined: 02/19/07
Posts: 68

So sorry to hear Mandy I had hoped all would turn out ok when I seen your post about the brown discharge Sad *Hugs* I hope you have lots of support and time with your family over the holidays. Good luck in your TTC Journey

belindab's picture
Joined: 06/15/02
Posts: 1033

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. I understand your pain. Praying for healing and a new blessing!