I have a dilemma...when I first got pg, I decided I wanted to go visit my youngest sister in Los Angeles (I live in Vermont) before the baby is born because I have no idea when my next chance will be, kind of a little kid-and-responsibility-free vacation for me and to spend time with her before I am tied at home for an indefinite period. I finally found a weekend in mid-April (I'd be about 28 weeks) that works for DH for me to leave, and it's kind of settled but I haven't bought a ticket yet. I want to go, but I am feeling like chickening out. I don't know if it's pregnancy hormones, but I just don't want to go that far from DH and DS and my home right now. Flying across the country and back by myself scares me right now. I would do it no problem before! Something about being pregnant makes it seem like a huge, risky deal. I know flying while pregnant is safe, it isn't really that, it's more just this nesting instinct pulling me to stay close to home. She is really excited for me to go and has been complaining that people don't come out and visit her enough and she always has to come here if she wants to see us. So I feel bad bailing, but I just don't know if I can do it! Any thoughts? Anyone else feeling this way (like you don't want to be away from your DH and kids if you have them?) Advice? Experience?