Ok - so DH and i rarely fight and last night i blew up at him and said I wanted to kill him and tried to sleep on the couch (which he would not allow since I am pregnant) - this may or may not have been the result of prego hormones... what do you think???
DH and i are lying in bed - discussing how much craziness we have in our lives right now and haven;t been preparing much / thinking about new baby coming and I feel guilty about it.... we are planning his sisters wedding in 10 weeks, and thew shwer and bachelorette party, also I am loosing my job in 3 weeks and perparing for baby and my energy is like zero....
so DH what we have to do to get ready for baby - I say at absolute LEAST we need to:
- Assemble crib
- get boxes of baby clothes (sheets, blankets etc...) out of attic / sort / see what we can use and need
- get car seat/ stroller, bassinet, swing, bouncer ,etc... out of attic - clean be sure all in working order
- clean out dressers / throw away clothes so make room for baby clothes in an old dresser
- purchase anything that didn't store well
..there are a few more - but that is the absolute LEAST of what we need to do before July...
to which he says - we from that list all we really need to do is put together the crib... we won't need the other equipment right away (hello we need the car seat to get the kids home from the hospital) and we don't need clothes for the baby - we have clothes from when DS is born - I said Well yes - that baby was born in Jan and this baby in July - he does not see how a difference of 30 degree to 90 degrees will make a big diffrence in clothing - so then he says "what is the point of buying clothes that he is just going to grow out of in 2 week! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I guess we sohuld just leave our kid nakes al lthe time until he is fully grown! At this point I say i hate him and want to kill him, leave the bed and slam the door.
normally he isn't such a dope! I mean we just raised a kid together its not like this is his 1st time around?
So was he being dumb or me emotional???