I'm trying to figure this out, so thought I'd see what everyone else is planning to do.
With DS, it was DH, a doula, the midwife, about 500 nurses it seemed like, and my mom (she wasn't supposed to be actually in the room with us, but the way things went, she ended up being in there. I think she asked at one point if it was OK for her to stay and at that point in my labor I couldn't have cared less who was in the room).
This time, I'm trying to decide a) whether or not to get a doula and b) if I should invite my mom to be there again.
With DS, my labor was very quick and I didn't really need anything from anyone until about 2 hours before he was born, and then I needed a lot. I had 2 people pushing on my back and one person holding my leg up during contractions. However, I feel like I would have been fine without the doula, I was so out of it by the time she was there and assisting that it really didn't make any difference to me that she was there. I guess she helped DH some. With DS, when it got hard, I was not one of those women who wants to just be alone. I needed reassurance from people around me and I needed physical things from them like pushing on my back, etc. But it could be that DH and a nurse could handle that just fine.