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The witch showed

Just wanted to let you ladies know that AF showed today so I am definitely out for the month of July. At least she showed EXACTLY when I expected her to. I suppose being regular is good at least. Next cycle I will wait until AF is missed before I test for anything I think. I'm just tired of the 2WW roller coaster. At least I get a break for a few weeks from it now. I wish you all the best of everything and am sending you all sticky vibes and every good thought I can your way! Good luck ladies! Thanks for everything!

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oh leah i'm so sorry hun! Yes take a break! this ttc thing will drive us all crazy i think!

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I think I've decided that during the next two week wait I will get a massage, possibly a pedicure, get my hair done different so I feel all special and just do a lot of fun relaxing things. I'm going to try to not pay attention to it at all. Just go by when my cycles start and when they end and when I ovulate for the doctor and all but for me...I don't think I want to know how many DPO I am. I just can't figure out how I can ovulate so extremely perfectly and not get pregnant. But we've got preseed for this time so we'll see how that works and I'll talk to the doc Friday to see what he says so we'll see. Thanks for the support!

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NO MASSAGE!!! Big no no while peg! boo to the :witch: showing. Hey, at least we have the possibility of having close edd! I'll message you with what I am going to try this month in a bit.

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CD 1 for me too! Onto August it is. Better luck to both of us this time around. I don't know why perfect cycles don't result in pregnancy sometimes! Not fair! I've had perfect cycles too the last few months but I have known tube problems so that's probably it for me. Not to mention I am quite a bit older than you!

Last month I felt pretty relaxed until the BFN, and I feel much better today than the last few days. I hope you find a good zen this month.

I am having a talk with my hubby tonight about reconsulting with the RE. I'm ready to try something else. We'll see how that goes. So hopefully next month I'll be moving onto some fertility treatments.

Take a good break for a few weeks and best of luck next time around!

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Sorry the witch showed. Sad BFN today at 13 DPO so I'm sure I'll be joining you soon.

On another note I had never heard that massage was bad during pregnancy so I did a little snooping around the internet. The information I found was that it's pretty much a myth that massages are bad in pregnancy and that you can go to a certified prenatal massage therapist who can work with you. That's just what I found though ... if you are concerned I would do your own research and make your own decision.

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"NutMeg4189" wrote:

Sorry the witch showed. Sad BFN today at 13 DPO so I'm sure I'll be joining you soon.

On another note I had never heard that massage was bad during pregnancy so I did a little snooping around the internet. The information I found was that it's pretty much a myth that massages are bad in pregnancy and that you can go to a certified prenatal massage therapist who can work with you. That's just what I found though ... if you are concerned I would do your own research and make your own decision.

Really? My ob and massage therapist said no massage during 1st trimester. It has to do with toxin release and newly forming baby.

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Thanks so much ladies for all the support! I wish that everyone had gotten their BFPs this time but since we didn't I'm glad that some of us will be able to move on together and at least we aren't alone in this.

I read some things about massages in the two week wait not being a big deal as long as certain pressure point are avoided but I'll ask my OBGYN about it this Friday before I make any decisions to be sure. If not then I'll just get it before I ovulate so I can go ahead and get it and not have to worry about it. I definitely don't want it to stress me out more. Haha.

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"batbird" wrote:

Really? My ob and massage therapist said no massage during 1st trimester. It has to do with toxin release and newly forming baby.

I understand. It just seems that there are a lot of OB's and Massage Therapist that don't think it's an issue ... but I'm neither and I don't get normally get massages, so when I get pregnant again it won't be an issue for me. All I was really suggesting was that she get her own information from her OB or go to a prenatal massage therapist and talk to them. I think it's probably just another one of those things that you have to weigh and decide on what you think is best with the information.

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So sorry the witch showed! I know what you mean about stressing out during the 2ww. I keep telling myself I want to wait to test this time. Going to try really hard to hold out but I'm so impatient. I like the idea of scheduling things to take your mind off it. Think I'll try that! Really hoping August will be your month!!

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Awe Leah I'm so sorry the witch showed Sad If we don't catch the egg again for this month I'll be joining you next month too Wink