Thanks! I think I've decided to test tomorrow morning if still no AF. DH knew something was up last night...he was like "what?? what?? I know you're thinking about something!!" (I am not a good liar and cannot hide much of anything, lol). I told him that I think I should test, and he kind of smiled....he seemed OK with it, albeit concerned. Then this morning he asked this morning if I had gotten AF and I said no, he is starting to think about it and worry about it a lot and wanted to test this morning but I told him we would wait until tomorrow and to try not to think about it. He said yeah right!! haha Anyways so I will let you know tomorrow!
It will all work out! We have a 3 bedroom house, and no problems. It's just how you look at things sometimes. We had to buy a new vehicle when we got pregnant with #5, but that wasn't a huge deal either, because it was already 10 years old and we were able to have it payed off after we got our tax return 6 months later. Oh, and all those activities can get expensive, but maybe there is a relative out there who would like to give "classes" for gifts??? My mom actually hates giving "stuff." Let's face it, we all have too much of it anyway, LOL. My mom likes to give the kiddos classes for presents. So that's really nice for things like swimming lessons and such. I guess what I'm saying is simply that you adjust as you need to, and life goes on. Babies are always a blessing, and even if your DH freaks out a bit in the beginning, he will come around. Think of the kids you have right now? Can you even imagine life without them? Impossible, right. YOu will be fine!
I think sometimes the reality is so much easier to deal with than the "what if?". If the test is positive you guys will just make it work!! Cant wait to hear!
DS Nigel 11/08/2008
Well after tossing and turning all night, I tested this morning and BFN. I am sad, but OK about it. It's very strange as I have been very regular with AF since having my son (prior to that very irregular cycles which was the reason I had a hard time getting pregnant). The good news is DH is now saying about how he has been thinking a lot about #3 and this whole thing has opened it open for discussion, so who knows maybe one day we will have another baby.
Thank you so much for your support and hope everyone has a very happy and healthy 9 months!!!!