I can't believe how mean some people can be!
I was just lurking on FF and came across a thread where a lady was so upset as she had posted on 'the bump' (never heard of this) so I checked it out, omg take a look how can ppl be so horrible!!
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We are so lucky to have pg.org where everyone is nice to each other and it's moderated to prevent trolls like these.
This is a really, really mean thought but honestly those ladies are so mean, maybe that's why they can't get pregnant. They have hostile uterus issues! Those are the women who, should they ever actually get a child, would beat up another child to get their kid ahead. Bitter angriness like that doesn't go away just because you finally get a baby. It's who you are. That is some serious ugliness.
Wether it's 6 months or 6 years, it means the same to the same person if they yearn to be a mother. Who knows how long it will take that perso that's waited 6 months so far to conceive. Those "ladies" are awful. So glad I am a part of a better community for sure.
I can see both sides, not that I agree but I do understand.
I have dealt with infertility my entire life, from the age of 16 I knew getting pregnant would be difficult so I was prepared for the long journey (well, maybe not all the emotions). I get frustrated when I hear people upset at not getting pregnant after trying 2 months, 6 months, try 5+ years! But I never say anything negative to them as I know how frustrating TTC can be. When I feel the need to vent I do so at the TTC 2+ years board as I know they understand the frustration. My frustration at being infertile does not give me the right to be bitter to others and their ttc journey.
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Robbie (8 )
Bailey (April 2, 2011)
"The soul always knows what to do to heal itself. The challenge is to silence the mind." Caroline Myss
Wow!! That all I can say.
DH Paul 34
DD1 Victoria 6 July 2006
DD2 Sarah 2 Feb 2011
DS1 Theodore July 2013
Married Aug 3, 2002
I'm glad this site is supportive.
But having been on wedding boards as well as pregancy boards over the past 5 years I can say that you will find helpful sites and you will find sites where you need to "wear your big girl panties" as they can be very mean. I always lurk before I post to find out what a board is like, and having looked at that board and the types of responses I don't think I would have posted.
Having dealt with infertility and having had a miscarriage I did find it hard when a friend was moaning that she still wasn't pregnant after 3 months of trying, at the time hubby and I were into our 2nd year of trying! But I tried to be as supportive as possible, she is now due on the 26th December while I am only just pregnant.