We haven't spilled the beans yet so thankfully none of those comments. However. We have our best friends well he is not the wife became pregnant unplanned and she is around 17 weeks now. They had decided no more kids as she was turning 40 this year. But on the pill is now expecting their 3rd. They are referring to the baby as FB- financial burden and I am expected them in my house next week for my nephews
Bday. Being I have had a loss as well as she has , I am finally my tongue biting skills are gone. And being pregnant now , I feel even more annoyed and upset they would even say that. It's making me lose my mind. Literally. So it's not affecting me per se but man O man. I will be throwing them out next weekend at even a mention. Makes my blood boil. Sorry it wasn't on topic so to speak but I feel really sensitive to that right now.
All of my friends and family are stoked and haven't made any comments. I am waiting for the comments from strangers though, who knows what I'll get! lol
K.R.L - 8.1.06
N.R.L - (1st homebirth) 3.20.09
Baby #3 (1st outdoor homebirth) EDD 7.12.14
My 2 biggest annoying questions are ..... "How did this happen?" (Really? Do I need to explain in detail how babies are made) and "Are you going to have more children?" (This is my first and I am 3 months, can I give birth to this baby first before planning my next pregnancy). It takes so much strength to not rip someone's face off. I feel bad at the same time too.