I'm now single!

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I'm now single!

It's official (I know I have said this before!) I am now a single parent. As many of you will remember, my relationship has been up and down....

Dbf and I had a heart to heart last night and both agreed that we will never learn to get on. As much as I wanted it to work, he admitted he didn't know how to make it happen. That to me proved that the love was lost..... otherwise he would know what he had to do to make us both happy.

Last night I was in tears, but today I am surprisingly ok. I think I know so much that our r/s has just run it's course and I am happy to try and rebuild my life again. Hopefully as we discussed we can remain friends for the sake of Leia and I realise it can take time etc but the last thing we both want is it turning nasty. Who knows what might happen if one of us meets someone new but I know on my part that is the least of my worries. I want to focus on getting me back and I don't need/want a man whilst in this process.

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Hugs to you!

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:bigarmhug: Glad you're doing well, but sorry to hear about the end of a relationship.

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I'm glad you are finding peace with this decision. Big hugs to you!!!

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Hi Kristi, big hugs coming your day. That is a tough decision to make, but it sounds like the best one you could make. I do hope that you find happiness down the road with someone who knows how to treat you the way you deserve!

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Thanks for the kind words ladies.

Last night was tough! I am still in the same house with him and it was weird knowing we aren't together but we have to get on for the sake of Leia. I just wanted to hug him, but there's no point.

I am still debating on whether to move back to my Mum's or try and get my own place.... it's hard because I have also been made redundant, although will not be leaving my job until about April next year but a lot to worry about in the meantime!

xx

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So sorry hon! It will be hard, but most likely the best choice. Keep yourself busy and fight the lonliness! It will be good to be solid on your own while you heal! Xoxo!

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I'm fighting it Melissa!

Still having good and bad days though which doesn't help. One minute I'm ok, the next I'm in tears!

xx

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I wish I had words of advice. Hugs!

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"Cali26" wrote:

I wish I had words of advice. Hugs!

Aww don't worry about it! The hardest thing is that everyone gets on with life whilst I feel sorry for myself lol. I'm trying to not show I'm hurt or that I want him to act like he cares but I do end up sending the odd emotional text letting rip eeek. I am only hurting myself though.... it will all get better with time.

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