Thanks Brianne for updating everyone.
We got up on 5/25 and took DS to school. He had a rough time being dropped off, I think he was afraid about the baby coming. Then we headed to the store to get some last minute things and went to the hospital. After I arrived, the hooked me up to the IV, drew blood and I changed into the gown for delivery. It was about 11:30 by this time. My doctor was supposed to come around 12:30, but he is always late and the nurse said it would probably be closer to 1:30.
DH and I were just hanging out in the room, watching tv and my mom came around 12:15. DH brought her into the room since we were still waiting for the doctor anyway. My back was really starting to hurt and I couldn't figure out why. I mentioned it to the nurse, but it was only really in one spot and I thought maybe it was a gas pain or something. As time went on, the pain kind of spread and I was getting more uncomfortable. The nurse came in to check me and looked at the print out from the contraction monitor and said "Do you know that you are having contractions every 3 minutes?" I said "Guess that it is why my back is hurting so badly." They didn't look like they were too strong and I wasn't feeling them that much at the time, except for the back pain. Over the next 30-45 minutes, they started to get much stronger and closer together. I was getting very uncomfortable. I didn't go through them like that with DS1 because by the time they were that strong I already had the epidural. DH said "You are getting screwed. You thought you were going to get out of the labor part this time, but I guess not." I kept saying the doctor better hurry because this baby was coming one way or the other and soon. When the doctor showed up around 2, he asked my mom if she was going to come in to the room with us for the c-section. She said no, that it was just going to be me and DH. The doctor said he thought she should be there because she wasn't there for the first and the first will always be the first and "my baby" and there should be something that makes this delivery different, etc. My mom asked what I thought and I told her that I was too busy being in labor to decide, but whatever she wanted was fine with me. She asked DH who said it was fine to do whatever she wanted. So, she said she wanted to come in.
At 2:29, Caden was born. I burst into tears as soon as I heard him cry. I don't remember doing that with Dylan. This c-section hurt more during than I remember with Dylan. I don't know if that has to do with my having had an epidural the first time or what. DH recorded the whole surgery. He asked if I wanted to watch it, but I haven't done it yet. I don't really have the stomach for those things. Maybe one day when it isn't so fresh. It actually turned out great to have my mom in the room because DH left with Caden and last time I was alone while they closed me up and that was hard for me. It was much better to have my mom to hold my hand and talk to me. The doctor explained each layer he was closing up, which was gross to listen to and I don't know how my mom watched it. Then he showed me the placenta and afterbirth and the sac where the baby was and how the vessels had started to die off and attack the baby which is what causes you to go into labor and was why I was going into labor. I really could have lived without seeing it. The recovery room was better this time because I didn't get the shakes like I did last time. But it was hard to go without seeing Caden all that time.
I am having a harder time with the recovery this time though. I am a lot more sore this time around than I remember being with Dylan. I am really hurting so percocet is my friend right now.
Caden is doing great. We do have one issue though. When they did the exam, they heard a heart murmur, so they did an echo and an EKG and found he has a small hole in his heart. They are telling me not worry and that they usually close on their own, but it is still scary. We have to go see a cardiologist to follow up.
That is it. We are home and happy and so far Dylan is being a great big brother.