I had my "alternate" ultrasound yesterday, specifically to look for the gender. Things went really well, but baby wasn't in the best position to get the "money shot". It's butt was tucked away pretty tight, and so we tried everything to get it to change position. Eventually baby got moving and we got the angle we were looking for, but there was cord all over the place, so for that reason, she tech couldn't tell us 100%.... BUT!
She is very confident that baby is a GIRL!!! She definitely saw the "three lines" quite a few times from different angles, but because of the position of the cord and how small baby is, she said that the cord could possibly be hiding a penis. I know I saw female anatomy a few different times, and there was never anything hanging between the legs that looked how my boys looked. I get to go back in 2 weeks just to confirm. She basically was confident enough to tell me to I go buy pink, but just keep the tags on and receipts for another couple weeks I'm excited!