2WW

Sorry girls I've been really busy with work so I got behind on reading. Just wanted to update that I am so confused and annoyed!! I should start AF today at the latest!! and there is no sign of it. yesterday I had a bloody nose and bloody gums when brushing my teeth which totally happened when I was pregnant. But the tests are SNOW WHITE I tell you. I don't know what's going on. I'm hoping I didn't have an anovulatry cycle or something. I had o pain for 5 days so I don't know when the freak I o'd. I really need to start temping.

Whitney - did you chart anything other than O pains? How many dpo from the end of the O pains? Perhaps it's too early to show on tests, or perhaps you are implanting on the later end?

The last day was a Saturday so that would put me at 10 dpo of the last day and I have a 10 day LP. If I did o on Saturday it could be too early to test however we only dtd on that previous tuesday. So if it was saturday, which it looks like it was, I don't think I have much of a chance. I only had EWCM on Tuesday and the worst pain was on Tuesday and Saturday with only mild in between. It was SO WEIRD and confusing. So temping is a must. Also, more dtd.

This AM the ICs were still BFN, gonna try to wait till thursday or friday.

Mary how many DPO are you again?

ten and according to the first response website like 9.5 i wasnt allowed to even do an early test until last night.

and even on the early response cheap test that I bought it was SUPER light... and it was a blue dye so it could be nothing...

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Originally Posted by tink9702

As far as daycare goes, do you both work full-time? Could one of you ask your employer to work from home or work weird hours so you only need part-time daycare. That is what we currently do. I work from home/evenings two days a week so we only need 3 days of daycare. It works well for us with two children. With #3 we had already decided I am going to be a SAHM but DH is definitely nervous about the money. I think it's natural for DH's to be very conscious of the money thing.

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We already do both work from home. LOL. But our employer has done some 'not cool' things to us in the past so we might look for something else while on mat leave. We both work for the same person. We are software developers.

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Originally Posted by PatienceW

so my temp nosedived this morning. BUT I still have until Monday for AF to arrive... implantation maybe? what do you ladies think? I had a big nosedive on my Nov 08 chart but it was earlier than this one...

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Oooooh, I hope it's implantation!!!!! It's around the right time!!!!

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Originally Posted by whitney1

Sorry girls I've been really busy with work so I got behind on reading. Just wanted to update that I am so confused and annoyed!! I should start AF today at the latest!! and there is no sign of it. yesterday I had a bloody nose and bloody gums when brushing my teeth which totally happened when I was pregnant. But the tests are SNOW WHITE I tell you. I don't know what's going on. I'm hoping I didn't have an anovulatry cycle or something. I had o pain for 5 days so I don't know when the freak I o'd. I really need to start temping.

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That is SO frustrating. I had more symptoms last cycle (when I got several BFNs) than this cycle (when I got a BFP). It's SO totally frustrating when that happens!!!!!

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Originally Posted by whitney1

The last day was a Saturday so that would put me at 10 dpo of the last day and I have a 10 day LP. If I did o on Saturday it could be too early to test however we only dtd on that previous tuesday. So if it was saturday, which it looks like it was, I don't think I have much of a chance. I only had EWCM on Tuesday and the worst pain was on Tuesday and Saturday with only mild in between. It was SO WEIRD and confusing. So temping is a must. Also, more dtd.

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I'd wait a couple days to test again in case you did O on Saturday. And stranger things have happened. With my daughter I was sure we weren't pregnant because we only dtd 5 days previous and the day after O. But we were pregnant! You're not out until AF shows!

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Originally Posted by MJDttc

ten and according to the first response website like 9.5 i wasnt allowed to even do an early test until last night.

and even on the early response cheap test that I bought it was SUPER light... and it was a blue dye so it could be nothing...

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Give it a day or two and test again, maybe by then you will get a BFP!

So today (and the last few days) I have been EXHAUSTED. I mean fighting to keep my eyes open EXHAUSTED (and DS was at Mom-Moms!) then today I felt really weird at the end of the day. and all I was doing was reading the kids a book. So I went down and had the nurse take my blood pressure. High. the only ohter time Ihave had high blood pressure was when I was preg with ds. and I had it early. Hmmmmmm So tempted to poas tomorrow....

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Originally Posted by PatienceW

So today (and the last few days) I have been EXHAUSTED. I mean fighting to keep my eyes open EXHAUSTED (and DS was at Mom-Moms!) then today I felt really weird at the end of the day. and all I was doing was reading the kids a book. So I went down and had the nurse take my blood pressure. High. the only ohter time Ihave had high blood pressure was when I was preg with ds. and I had it early. Hmmmmmm So tempted to poas tomorrow....

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Same with me! My BP has been hellacious the last few days...