DS spent the last 2 nights at Mom-Moms so that he could get in some cousin time. Which was really nice bc I was able to try to catch up a little for school... not enough to get a head.. but not day to day on all subjects either) but it KILLS ME when he comes home. 1st I was real excited to go into his room and find him sitting on his potty. he asked for a crittle (skittle) and when I gave him one he said "Mom mom gave me 2" and demanded a second one! this is what she did hte last time we were attempting potty training and he completely shut down for almost 5 months. We had already had the "he gets 1 skittle" discussion before we left him there bc she asked if he could have hershey kisses instead. NO! Then I spent all night trying to get him to go to sleep since DH came home late with him.. did hte if I wait til later he will sleep on the way home and Ill put him in bed crap. which ALWAYS translates to "powernap in the car raring to go when I wake" Not to mention when I got home from work I spent all of my time doing laundry and cleaning our bedroom bc dh has misplaced his work keys. and he wanted to look for them tongiht so I figured I would help him. came home. didnt acknowledge I spent my entire evening doing cleanign and searching for HIS keys that he can't manage to hang on the dang hook at the door (theres a key hodler with like 10 hooks on it!) despite the fact that I needed to get shcoolwork done for TOMORROW. but went to bed instead. so I spent my evening of "catching up" searchign for something for HIM he brings me a wired kid and then goes to bed. so DS JUST got to bed ( again for hte 50th time) I haent even started my schoolwork for tomorrow and I am so frustrated exhausted I can't even focus to do it. and I get to be the lucky one that has to fight the 3 yr old that didnt go to sleep until after 11 pm. this automatically means Ill be late for work. I HATE when he does this type of crud. these are also the times I begin to question if I really want to have antoehr right now. (Dont get me wrong dh does a lot to help around but its football season which means that he's extra tired from coaching and doesnt seem to udnerstand that Im extra tired from teaching and dealing with a 3 yr old by myself every single morning and night AND AF just left. . the orginal deal was he'd take DS to daycare in the mornings so I didnt have to fight him in the morning and at night. he's taken him a total of 3 times in the last 4 weeks. then he had the nerve to ask me when we were going to make a baby when I went through the room to check the monitor to see if DS was still in bed. I pointed out that it sure as heck wasnt going to be tonight. or tomorrow for htat matter. he makes me SO FRUSTRATED sometimes!